Let’s give a little thought of what that receiver will enjoy, sometimes we reach into the old “gift closet” and pull out anything so as not to show up empty handed. There is nothing wrong with the saved gifts in the closet, though choose among them carefully. Scented candles and luxurious soaps are great for the Holidays; my personal favorites are Diptyque candles, Joe Malone soaps or any Fresh shower gels & body lotions.
Giving to a friend a hardcover retrospective on a favorite designer is very thoughtful and sophisticated.
Keep in mind that gifts don’t have to be expensive. It really is the thought that counts! How about a manicure certificate? Presentation counts. Take the time to make your gift look fabulous with nice wrapping.
Think about the receiver, things they like, or things that are expressive of your relationship. On a side note, if you bring flowers to a hostess when she is having a party, please put them in a vase before you arrive. Avoid creating extra work for someone who is receiving guests.
Don’t be offended if the receiver does not open the gift right away – even if you were hoping to taste the wine you brought.